Spoiler alert, I'm going to talk about the "The Bad Mother" episode of Big Little Lies. Stop reading now if you haven't seen it. Bonnie (played by Zoë Kravitz) has been struggling since she pushed Perry (played by Alex Skarsgård) to his death in the first season. Not to promote violence, but oh boy could I understand her reaction to seeing Celeste (played by Nicole Kidman) being beaten. Yes, when you've been abused as a child, rage can be an issue. In the episode Bonnie's mot

It's finally happened, The Illusion of a Girl is published! I'm so excited to share my story. It's taken me four years to arrive here. I've edited it so many times, I've hired editors, designers, and asked other authors to critique it. It's been a long road with some tough disappointments and lots of self-doubt. The most important thing to me is to get the message out there about dysfunctional families and breaking the dysfunctional cycle. I broke the cycle of so many generat